November 2025

000 Just the Tip: a monthly dispatch on the modern mess

Welcome to the ISMTSP newsletter; a roundup of all things feral that I'm feeling these days

Nov 26, 2025 • ISMTSP

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September 2025

A Recipe for Doing Things with Heart

What is heart?

Sep 30, 2025 • ISMTSP

July 2025

The men have left the chat: the death of the meet cute, dating indifference, and a discussion on intimacy

Thoughts and questions about the NYT article titled, "Men, where have you gone? Please come back."

Jul 7, 2025 • ISMTSP

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June 2025

The lamest things guys say when breaking up with you

Boys, men, boys who think they're men: please, don't.

Jun 19, 2025 • ISMTSP

Holes

Sometimes it feels good to be filled. But even when it does, they don’t fill the hole I feel without you.

Jun 19, 2025 • ISMTSP

You deserve to be properly fucked

You deserve equal pay. But, you also deserve to be properly fucked

Jun 14, 2025 • ISMTSP

You're doing so good

Turns out I’m a slut for praise, my kink is encouragement, and I get off on someone being proud of me

Jun 14, 2025 • ISMTSP

For my 30th birthday, I gave myself a divorce

A year ago, I courageously, carefully dismantled the life I thought I wanted.

Jun 10, 2025 • ISMTSP

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I saw my therapist at a sex party

An introduction

Jun 9, 2025 • ISMTSP

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